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We Have a Choice
We Have a Choice is a reflective essay for art collectors about consuming less and valuing care, attention, and time. Through everyday observations — a crooked plane tree, shared books, waiting behind a garbage truck — the text explores an alternative to fast transactions. It reflects on living with art and objects as a conscious practice, asking how we choose to relate to what already exists and how small, careful choices can open other ways of being.
ericafraaije
3 days ago2 min read


Waiting without expectation
This essay reflects on waiting as a way of being. It moves from a quiet moment before a Pilates class, through memories of blossoms, poems, and missed expectations, to objects resting in a thrift shop. Waiting appears not as delay, but as presence — in making, in daily life, and in allowing time to unfold without expectation.
ericafraaije
6 days ago3 min read


Softness as a Choice
Two keys, two materials, two ways of opening and closing.
This piece explores how softness, tension, and our oldest instincts shape the way we move through the world.
The materials speak — and the interpretation remains open.
ericafraaije
Nov 16, 20253 min read


Half hardened but not half hearted, sculpture between firm and tender
A reflection on care, frugality and mildness, about finding meaning in what already exists, how materials become whole in the right context.
ericafraaije
Oct 11, 20251 min read


Sleutels tot waarheid – over Rilke, Houvast en mijn komende expositie in Warmond
Sleutels als zoektocht naar waarheid en context. Van Rilke tot mijn expositie in Warmond.
ericafraaije
Sep 13, 20252 min read


Perfection, Pulses, and Perspective
The image above is a tongue-in-cheek take on beauty ideals—a fashion moment with a crow on my head—or rather, on a wire cage. The text on...
ericafraaije
May 10, 20253 min read


How a dog, a Danish design, and a storm shaped unforgettable moments
In the image above, a small paper-mâché dog sits quietly before a vivid painting. This dog has a story—it was lovingly crafted by my...
ericafraaije
Nov 25, 20242 min read


They Didn’t Miss the Mark: Finding Power in the Balance Between Strength and (self) Compassion
Self-compassion is key in both art and life. Just as gentle brushstrokes shape a painting, kindness can reshape our relationships.
ericafraaije
Oct 5, 20242 min read


Needle Techniques in Art: A Personal Reflection
Explore the rhythm and texture of art through needlework. #TextileTales with Erica Fraaije’s art. #CraftingWithPassion, #messageoftextile
ericafraaije
May 16, 20242 min read


Waterbed
Leonoor's waterbed epitomized her embrace of the present moment, reflecting her commitment to living fully in the here and now.
ericafraaije
Apr 11, 20243 min read


What they say about my hair
The deeper meaning of hair extends beyond its physical appearance to symbolize self-expression, identity, and societal expectations.
ericafraaije
Mar 24, 20243 min read


family expressions
That fear of straying from the path was absent at home, replaced by a sense of freedom.
ericafraaije
Mar 10, 20241 min read
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